"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Unavoidable AW

Flyer

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hey guys.. got a question.

Whats the best way to get a AW off your back without losing access to her friends?

I mean, I've deleted and block her.. but then somehow she's in my same lectures and tutorial classes. I have ignored her where possible... but she's startin conversations and ignoring that would place me in the jerk category. (God, even my afc friend told me to smile more when talkin to her...)

Anyways, heres what happened.. the tutorial ended about 40 minutes early.. she kinda dragged me into a food court with her (touchy and feely, as AWs are). Anyhoos, I took charge, told her where to sit, buy a drink, etc.

heres what I found out about an AW: tops half. Laugh/Smiles at whatever I say, plays with hair, leaning in, lots of EC - infact, I had to stare her down a couple of times.. but, look under, the great wall (legs double crossed). saw this cus I was sitting about 1/2 a meter away from the table and she was basically leaning on it..

oh, and I have openly hit on her friends in front of her, she responsed by starting kino. I think, I am going about this the wrong way..:confused:

Should I lay down the rules and sarge on random HBs instead..? thou some of her friends are quite cute..:rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Black_Italian

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I dont understand this whle attention whor*s thing. I just have sex with them and never call again.
 

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na, the thing is.. she comes up and start talking even if I'm with my friends!

hold the phone... I think I got it figured. I'll pass her onto some poor afc! :eek:
 

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no your doing fine, just don't step on her toes. I know It's hard for a man to ignore a flirty woman, but do your best man.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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G-Man UK

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Pull out your penis and slap her with it.

Ninja Out
LMAO :crackup: :crackup:
 
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