"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unable to find a wingman

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Bolt_nayak

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Where can I find a wingman online? I have been unable to find one in my local city.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bolt_nayak said:
I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm getting frustrated and loosing my hopes
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you might be doing nothing wrong.
Cold approaching strangers is a game of numbers/luck
E.G - It's about approaching the girls who are attracted to you. When you 'open' them girls, it's hard to mess up. Conversation is easy and everything (escalation etc) kind of takes care of itself
And when you open the girls who think you are too old/ugly/short/whatever then nothing will 'work'. (as we see again and again in infields)
Don't stress. And don't give money to PUA's who would very likely get identical results to you in the same body/location!! (e.g all of them lol)
 
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It's yet a common problem, especially for aspiring DJ,S

It's really difficult to find someone who is on your level on multiple facets. A better looking / smoother wingman who steals are your women...is not gonna be want you want.

Neither do you want to babysit an incel who wants to talk about how black holes in space works while music is blasting through the speakers.

And lastly, you DEFINITELY don't wanna clone yourself. One of you os all rhis world can handle LOL.

Nah for real. You're young. Join a team sport , be social. Specifically the first paragraph is what you DON'T want. And believe me, most men who are players/ ladies man are as narcissistic as it gets..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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