"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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UmMM :S

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hey all

so this week at school this chick has been telling ppl and ME she wants to hookup

and apprently she was bugging some of my girl-friends so much they basically dragged me to her so i could hookup with her and she could shutup..

so anyway i go over to her, go for a walk, we start talkin ect ect.

before i getta chance to do anything she says i dont want to hookup with you in school

i said thats fair enough

then she goes and i want to get to know you a bit more before we hookup

at this point i was like :S wtf wer just goin to hookup..not like wer guna fvckn start dating...

so anyone care to try explain? :S

p.s. this was my first thread here :D :D long time reader :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sounds like an attention *****, show her you wont take any of her flakey ****
 
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The.Nice.Guy

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well i managed to piss her off today lol...i was flirting A LOT with some of her friends and she gotta bit cut at me

afterschool i walked by her, said Bye n shes like..wait...comes upto me and kisses me on the cheek :rolleyes:

think i should keep flirtin with her friends?
 
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Originally posted by The.Nice.Guy
think i should keep flirtin with her friends?
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Do you enjoy it?
Does it make you happy?

If yes then do it, simple as that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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flirting with other girls = kiss from girl you like

no, stop doing it, never do it EVER EVER again. god, next time she might just jump you in a dark alley and have her way with you, and of course you don't want that

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