"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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UmMM :S

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hey all

so this week at school this chick has been telling ppl and ME she wants to hookup

and apprently she was bugging some of my girl-friends so much they basically dragged me to her so i could hookup with her and she could shutup..

so anyway i go over to her, go for a walk, we start talkin ect ect.

before i getta chance to do anything she says i dont want to hookup with you in school

i said thats fair enough

then she goes and i want to get to know you a bit more before we hookup

at this point i was like :S wtf wer just goin to hookup..not like wer guna fvckn start dating...

so anyone care to try explain? :S

p.s. this was my first thread here :D :D long time reader :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sounds like an attention *****, show her you wont take any of her flakey ****
 
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well i managed to piss her off today lol...i was flirting A LOT with some of her friends and she gotta bit cut at me

afterschool i walked by her, said Bye n shes like..wait...comes upto me and kisses me on the cheek :rolleyes:

think i should keep flirtin with her friends?
 
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Originally posted by The.Nice.Guy
think i should keep flirtin with her friends?
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Do you enjoy it?
Does it make you happy?

If yes then do it, simple as that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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flirting with other girls = kiss from girl you like

no, stop doing it, never do it EVER EVER again. god, next time she might just jump you in a dark alley and have her way with you, and of course you don't want that

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