"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

UmMM :S

The.Nice.Guy

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2004
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
hey all

so this week at school this chick has been telling ppl and ME she wants to hookup

and apprently she was bugging some of my girl-friends so much they basically dragged me to her so i could hookup with her and she could shutup..

so anyway i go over to her, go for a walk, we start talkin ect ect.

before i getta chance to do anything she says i dont want to hookup with you in school

i said thats fair enough

then she goes and i want to get to know you a bit more before we hookup

at this point i was like :S wtf wer just goin to hookup..not like wer guna fvckn start dating...

so anyone care to try explain? :S

p.s. this was my first thread here :D :D long time reader :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

kiz

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2005
Messages
130
Reaction score
0
Age
39
sounds like an attention *****, show her you wont take any of her flakey ****
 

The.Nice.Guy

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2004
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
well i managed to piss her off today lol...i was flirting A LOT with some of her friends and she gotta bit cut at me

afterschool i walked by her, said Bye n shes like..wait...comes upto me and kisses me on the cheek :rolleyes:

think i should keep flirtin with her friends?
 

Alpha_Animal

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2005
Messages
46
Reaction score
0
Location
Wales
Originally posted by The.Nice.Guy
think i should keep flirtin with her friends?
Do you enjoy it?
Does it make you happy?

If yes then do it, simple as that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Mr. Debonaire

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2004
Messages
544
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
in front of my computer
flirting with other girls = kiss from girl you like

no, stop doing it, never do it EVER EVER again. god, next time she might just jump you in a dark alley and have her way with you, and of course you don't want that

;)
 
Top