"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ummm... once again posts disapearing?

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I mean this time it was really wierd. I was typing in a perfectly good thread. HS. about Comfort Zones... so I do my stuff type it all in hit reply. So I look back and read it going back to type something. CLick edit...

This page is... contact webmaster.

telling me the button linked to nothing. So i kept on clicking the buttons for all the posters same thing. SO I go out to the main forum and the post wasn't there. I checked the last post I wrote in and it was the one I posted in before I posted in the one that disappeared. EVEN THOUGH I SAW MY POST.

The first post was under Capi then i needed my signature[I was telling them to go to somewhere i it.] so I signed out and signed in again under this SN. So I know it was there long enough to be posted in twice. ONly after my second post did it vanish...

so :( .... just thought I'd say that. Don't know what happened.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What was the post? I'll check it out.
 
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What the hell? :confused:

Why you say it was me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah that was it... My posts must have gotten deleted too.
 
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Originally posted by Nocturnal
I'm not, just asking if you know what's up.
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Beats me, but I think i found the ones you bumped, corect me if i'm wrong. I talked to eternal, and he said it's happened before.
 
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