"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ummm... once again posts disapearing?

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I mean this time it was really wierd. I was typing in a perfectly good thread. HS. about Comfort Zones... so I do my stuff type it all in hit reply. So I look back and read it going back to type something. CLick edit...

This page is... contact webmaster.

telling me the button linked to nothing. So i kept on clicking the buttons for all the posters same thing. SO I go out to the main forum and the post wasn't there. I checked the last post I wrote in and it was the one I posted in before I posted in the one that disappeared. EVEN THOUGH I SAW MY POST.

The first post was under Capi then i needed my signature[I was telling them to go to somewhere i it.] so I signed out and signed in again under this SN. So I know it was there long enough to be posted in twice. ONly after my second post did it vanish...

so :( .... just thought I'd say that. Don't know what happened.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What was the post? I'll check it out.
 

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What the hell? :confused:

Why you say it was me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah that was it... My posts must have gotten deleted too.
 

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Originally posted by Nocturnal
I'm not, just asking if you know what's up.
Beats me, but I think i found the ones you bumped, corect me if i'm wrong. I talked to eternal, and he said it's happened before.
 
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