"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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umm what should i say?

sheep-man

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this is a fairly common problem with me.. im 18 yrs old and ive started working at a big chain store i work at night my section is the home entertainment section which joins onto the clouthing section, neways the otherday i was putting up top 30 singles and near that wall is a cloths wall and there was a girl filling and i had never talked to her before... she said hello to me and smiled, and shes done this a heap more times... one time i was trying to get the pricing thing to work and i couldnt so i went into that section and asked someone to do it for me and they grabbed it and played with it for no joke 5 minutes before giving it back and telling me they never used it before then she came over and offered to do it but she hadnt ever used it b4 aswell so they wernt nehelp... but neways i want to know what i should say to this girl... i wanna ask her out coz shes fairly attractive and i think she could be fun also shes really short and my mum banned me from seeing short chiks so i want to go out with her even if its to annoy my mother, im really tall and she told me im not allowed to go out with short girls she was saying it jokingly but she was also sorta serious so yeh i wanna know how i should ask out this girl...

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sheep-man said:
...my mum banned me from seeing short chiks so i want to go out with her even if its to annoy my mother, im really tall and she told me im not allowed to go out with short girls she was saying it jokingly but she was also sorta serious so yeh i wanna know how i should ask out this girl...

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What??? Is it ok to ask girls out with short hair then? LOL

For the rest of it.. read the DJ bible.
 

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i no i found it funny to i told her since she made that rull i was going to go to a mdjet convention to pik up chiks... but she didnt take it seriously and i couldnt find any conventions... and i think shed be cool woth short hair but i dont like short hair on chiks makes em look like lesbians and i have started reading the dj bible or is it the boot camp im not sure but yeh so far soo good im in week one and i havent started yet but i finished everything so all day every day i got no plans so i can easily make time for the training stuff
 

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im sorry im having trouble reading your post because you used barely any punctuation and its making my brain hurt and i couldnt understand anything you said in there and im not using any punctuation either because you ruined my ability to write correctly im now dumber from reading your post:woo:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ok ill go strait to the problem theres a girl i dont know who looks at me and talks to me and stuff and i wanna ask her out but i dont know what i should say...
 

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well if shes into me then she would say yes to nething id say rite... so what do i say?
 

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All these posts here makes it seem like approaching a girl is like taking the most important test of your life. Put it into perspective bro. This is one girl out of a trillion. Make some conversation, don't wait for her to ask you out, and oh yeah READ THE BIBLE.
 

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umm yeh i kno one in a trillion but i see her all the time so if i ask her and turns out im too old for her or somthing it will be awkward everytime i see her at work! which will be bad, also i was wondering what do u do in awkward silences there a mood killa and ruined my chance with this mega hottie one time
 

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Trust me, a feeling of rejection will go away after a day or two. The feeling of regretting not talking to her will be there till you redeem yourself. There's always plenty of excuses you can make for being rejected. When you can't even approach a girl though, the only excuse is you were a vag and couldn't man up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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:) yeah just ask for a number and forget about what your mom said.


its not like your mom wants to have sex with that chick.
 
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