"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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umm what should i say?

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this is a fairly common problem with me.. im 18 yrs old and ive started working at a big chain store i work at night my section is the home entertainment section which joins onto the clouthing section, neways the otherday i was putting up top 30 singles and near that wall is a cloths wall and there was a girl filling and i had never talked to her before... she said hello to me and smiled, and shes done this a heap more times... one time i was trying to get the pricing thing to work and i couldnt so i went into that section and asked someone to do it for me and they grabbed it and played with it for no joke 5 minutes before giving it back and telling me they never used it before then she came over and offered to do it but she hadnt ever used it b4 aswell so they wernt nehelp... but neways i want to know what i should say to this girl... i wanna ask her out coz shes fairly attractive and i think she could be fun also shes really short and my mum banned me from seeing short chiks so i want to go out with her even if its to annoy my mother, im really tall and she told me im not allowed to go out with short girls she was saying it jokingly but she was also sorta serious so yeh i wanna know how i should ask out this girl...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sheep-man said:
...my mum banned me from seeing short chiks so i want to go out with her even if its to annoy my mother, im really tall and she told me im not allowed to go out with short girls she was saying it jokingly but she was also sorta serious so yeh i wanna know how i should ask out this girl...

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What??? Is it ok to ask girls out with short hair then? LOL

For the rest of it.. read the DJ bible.
 

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i no i found it funny to i told her since she made that rull i was going to go to a mdjet convention to pik up chiks... but she didnt take it seriously and i couldnt find any conventions... and i think shed be cool woth short hair but i dont like short hair on chiks makes em look like lesbians and i have started reading the dj bible or is it the boot camp im not sure but yeh so far soo good im in week one and i havent started yet but i finished everything so all day every day i got no plans so i can easily make time for the training stuff
 

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im sorry im having trouble reading your post because you used barely any punctuation and its making my brain hurt and i couldnt understand anything you said in there and im not using any punctuation either because you ruined my ability to write correctly im now dumber from reading your post:woo:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok ill go strait to the problem theres a girl i dont know who looks at me and talks to me and stuff and i wanna ask her out but i dont know what i should say...
 

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well if shes into me then she would say yes to nething id say rite... so what do i say?
 

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All these posts here makes it seem like approaching a girl is like taking the most important test of your life. Put it into perspective bro. This is one girl out of a trillion. Make some conversation, don't wait for her to ask you out, and oh yeah READ THE BIBLE.
 

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umm yeh i kno one in a trillion but i see her all the time so if i ask her and turns out im too old for her or somthing it will be awkward everytime i see her at work! which will be bad, also i was wondering what do u do in awkward silences there a mood killa and ruined my chance with this mega hottie one time
 

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Trust me, a feeling of rejection will go away after a day or two. The feeling of regretting not talking to her will be there till you redeem yourself. There's always plenty of excuses you can make for being rejected. When you can't even approach a girl though, the only excuse is you were a vag and couldn't man up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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:) yeah just ask for a number and forget about what your mom said.


its not like your mom wants to have sex with that chick.
 
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