"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Um...what do you guys think about this?

DJ_in_making

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It seems very risky and sounds like something that would just get you slapped. But hey, women work in strange ways.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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come on don Juans, help ,me out do you think this would or not?
 

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well u gotta be decent looking and having a pretty damn good conversation if something like that is supposed to work....
Dont think it will work for inexperianced people....
 

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i think it's too forward. after 20 minutes most girls just arent comfortable enough to let you do that

the risks outweigh the rewards, IMHO, unless you are super smooth
 

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Lame. That dude probably watched too many movies. I bet he hasn't field tested that **** once. Be weary of all the material out there, most of it is bull****.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ_in_making

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just what I was thinking...ok guys
 

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That sounds like something that might work on a slightly longer timeframe... maybe second date.... or if the first date went well... maybe a night cap/closer move...
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by mungro
That sounds like something that might work on a slightly longer timeframe... maybe second date.... or if the first date went well... maybe a night cap/closer move...
yea, but it was intended as an OPENER. can u believe that?
 
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