DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
It seems very risky and sounds like something that would just get you slapped. But hey, women work in strange ways.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Um...what do you guys think about this?
- Thread starter DJ_in_making
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
come on don Juans, help ,me out do you think this would or not?
isotope
Senior Don Juan
i think it's too forward. after 20 minutes most girls just arent comfortable enough to let you do that
the risks outweigh the rewards, IMHO, unless you are super smooth
the risks outweigh the rewards, IMHO, unless you are super smooth
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
just what I was thinking...ok guys
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
yea, but it was intended as an OPENER. can u believe that?Originally posted by mungro
That sounds like something that might work on a slightly longer timeframe... maybe second date.... or if the first date went well... maybe a night cap/closer move...