"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Um sexual technique

Pathgen

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Ok so this girl that i have been having sex with on and off asked me to rub her while im penetrating her. Not an unusual request, so i do it a bit. The problem? I eventually not intentionally stop playing. So afterwards she asks next time we do this dont stop rubbing at the end.

Most other girls i have been with have either rubbed themselves or they didn't bring it up afterwards. However, i want to know what you guys do if this has ever been an issue for you. Do you guys tell her to play with herself if she wants that or do you have another method.

I want to know this cause this girl is really shy but is freaky in bed. I want her coming back for more:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why dont you just intentionally keep rubbing her?
 

Pathgen

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Why dont you just intentionally keep rubbing her?
Im not a moron, but its like patting your head and rubbing your stomach at the same time. Its easy to do if you concentrate. However, my experience has been i lose concentration the more stimulated i get.

Yeah I guess the best bet is to have her do it herself. I just thought it would be something that somebody has figured out. Plus it would most likely be a plus to know
 
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