snowdog said:Man, i wish i was in one of those frat homes.
snowdog said:In a lot of aspects, college in the US is way cooler then in Europe.
Yeah, Snowdog knows what's up!!
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
snowdog said:Man, i wish i was in one of those frat homes.
snowdog said:In a lot of aspects, college in the US is way cooler then in Europe.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Really... I don't remember them having a sand room in the movie douche bag. But, what the idea enables you to do is having something unique about your room.Serialized3 said:Too bad you got your great idea straight from the movie "Old School"...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maybe you're too stupid to remember the part of the movie where Beanie is taking whippets with that ho in that room and talks about it.Jason88 said:Really... I don't remember them having a sand room in the movie douche bag. But, what the idea enables you to do is having something unique about your room.
Sure having a sofa and a poster of Modest Mouse will really make the chicks flock to your room ...good luck
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.