"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ultimate DJ Songs

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Post them here if you will. I got some...

Standing outside the fire- Garth Brooks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Picture me rollin-2pac

My Block-2pac

Slippin-DMX

Pain-2pac

Mastermind-Deltron 3030

Oblivion-30 Seconds to Mars

She's Got Issues- The Offspring

Crazy B!tch-Buckcherry
 

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I listen to I'm a flirt by r. kelly on the way to where i'll be hanging.
 

speakeasy

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"Pop that coochie" by 2livecrew.
"Nookie" by Limp Bizkit.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Amusement Park - 50 Cent
Stronger - Kanye West (great rejection song)
Mamacita - Collie Buddz
BOOM BOOM BOOM - The Outhere Brothers
Fuego - Pitbull
Hoes in Here - Federation
My Girl Gotta Girlfriend - Ray
Shawty - Plies ft. T-Pain
Cyclone - Baby Bash
I'm A Flirt -R. Kelly ft. T.I.
Impacto - Daddy Yankee
The Naughty Song (remix) - Cory Lee
Get Down On It - Kool & The Gang
Back That A$$ Up - Juvenile
Here Comes the Hotstepper - Ini Kamoze
Gold Digger - Kanye West & Jamie Fox
Bojangles (Remix) - Pitbull ft. Lil Jon & Ying Yang Twins


My personal motivation song right now is "Change Up" Fabolous ft./ Akon
and "Feugo" Pitbull

AFC Song ..... "Beautifull Girls" gets my vote along with "Dry your Eyes"-The Streets. (neither are bad songs by any means, but good AFC songs)
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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For people who like Hip-Hop/Rap

R. Kelly - Sex Weed
Dead Prez - Mind Sex
Lil Jon - B!tches ain't sh!t
Mac Dre - Make You Mine
Smoov-E - I.A.F.Y.B. :yes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i am me

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one of my favorites is jay z- i just wanna love you

i could give u guys a million rap/hip hop songs but im sure ur not gonna go and get them all...
 

Credos

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Splend It - shameboy
Rechoque - Shameboy
strobot - shameboy
mann gegen mann - rammstein
buck dich - rammstein
every you every me - placebo

<3 shameboy <3
(btw, dj music... doesn't exist, everybody likes different music, it won't make you a dj though :whistle: )
 

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redman - i'll be dat

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My first name must be He Ain't ****
Cause every time I'm in a car
*****es be like, "He ain't ****!"
"
lol
 

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  • Agent X Feat. Donaeo - Slow It Down
  • Delinquent feat jc-playin around (original_mix)
  • John Cena and the trademarc - just another day
  • Styles p - Gangster and a gentleman
  • Survivor - No Easy Way Out
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls, Girls, Girls

-Jay-Z
 

theunflushables

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[/QUOTE] AFC Song ..... "Beautifull Girls" gets my vote along with "Dry your Eyes"-The Streets. (neither are bad songs by any means, but good AFC songs)[/QUOTE]


I don't know that Beautiful Girls song, but I have to say that "Dry Your Eyes" by The Streets is not really AFC. Rember when listening to the Streets that Mike Skinner talks almost in a dialouge with himself.

So in the verses Skinner is playing the typical AFC.

But in the chorus he's saying walk away, plenty more fish in the sea.

And being that the last line is "But you've got to walk away now." I would say this song is more for AFCs to quit being AFCs.
 

i am me

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isnt beautiful girls the sean kingston song talkin about hes gonna go suicidal....lol ya i dont think anyone takes that song seriously but its catchy in a disney-sing-songy way
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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