"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ultimate DJ Songs

jt the azn

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Post them here if you will. I got some...

Standing outside the fire- Garth Brooks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Picture me rollin-2pac

My Block-2pac

Slippin-DMX

Pain-2pac

Mastermind-Deltron 3030

Oblivion-30 Seconds to Mars

She's Got Issues- The Offspring

Crazy B!tch-Buckcherry
 

armadon

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I listen to I'm a flirt by r. kelly on the way to where i'll be hanging.
 

speakeasy

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"Pop that coochie" by 2livecrew.
"Nookie" by Limp Bizkit.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zerocelcius

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Amusement Park - 50 Cent
Stronger - Kanye West (great rejection song)
Mamacita - Collie Buddz
BOOM BOOM BOOM - The Outhere Brothers
Fuego - Pitbull
Hoes in Here - Federation
My Girl Gotta Girlfriend - Ray
Shawty - Plies ft. T-Pain
Cyclone - Baby Bash
I'm A Flirt -R. Kelly ft. T.I.
Impacto - Daddy Yankee
The Naughty Song (remix) - Cory Lee
Get Down On It - Kool & The Gang
Back That A$$ Up - Juvenile
Here Comes the Hotstepper - Ini Kamoze
Gold Digger - Kanye West & Jamie Fox
Bojangles (Remix) - Pitbull ft. Lil Jon & Ying Yang Twins


My personal motivation song right now is "Change Up" Fabolous ft./ Akon
and "Feugo" Pitbull

AFC Song ..... "Beautifull Girls" gets my vote along with "Dry your Eyes"-The Streets. (neither are bad songs by any means, but good AFC songs)
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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For people who like Hip-Hop/Rap

R. Kelly - Sex Weed
Dead Prez - Mind Sex
Lil Jon - B!tches ain't sh!t
Mac Dre - Make You Mine
Smoov-E - I.A.F.Y.B. :yes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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one of my favorites is jay z- i just wanna love you

i could give u guys a million rap/hip hop songs but im sure ur not gonna go and get them all...
 

Credos

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Splend It - shameboy
Rechoque - Shameboy
strobot - shameboy
mann gegen mann - rammstein
buck dich - rammstein
every you every me - placebo

<3 shameboy <3
(btw, dj music... doesn't exist, everybody likes different music, it won't make you a dj though :whistle: )
 

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redman - i'll be dat

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My first name must be He Ain't ****
Cause every time I'm in a car
*****es be like, "He ain't ****!"
"
lol
 

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  • Agent X Feat. Donaeo - Slow It Down
  • Delinquent feat jc-playin around (original_mix)
  • John Cena and the trademarc - just another day
  • Styles p - Gangster and a gentleman
  • Survivor - No Easy Way Out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reset

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Girls, Girls, Girls

-Jay-Z
 

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[/QUOTE] AFC Song ..... "Beautifull Girls" gets my vote along with "Dry your Eyes"-The Streets. (neither are bad songs by any means, but good AFC songs)[/QUOTE]


I don't know that Beautiful Girls song, but I have to say that "Dry Your Eyes" by The Streets is not really AFC. Rember when listening to the Streets that Mike Skinner talks almost in a dialouge with himself.

So in the verses Skinner is playing the typical AFC.

But in the chorus he's saying walk away, plenty more fish in the sea.

And being that the last line is "But you've got to walk away now." I would say this song is more for AFCs to quit being AFCs.
 

i am me

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isnt beautiful girls the sean kingston song talkin about hes gonna go suicidal....lol ya i dont think anyone takes that song seriously but its catchy in a disney-sing-songy way
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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