I would add these few things to your guide even if it is more side-dance floor technique (general club tactics) and somewhat passive. At least, it's field tested (i go out alone often)! I got approched many times with that "technique" (+ kiss close and full close) and dont think i am that good looking. Anyway, that's usefull when have you dont like dancing on a particular song or just want to take a break from a previous heavy dancing session!
- There is always a path to the dance floor.. if you have to stand still, find the spot where you can look at the people going to and from the dance floor.
- Have a very relaxed attitude, just like you worked hard all day long and just want to relax, have fun, listen to the music and look at the ladies. I think i have found a posture that convey that appropriately, but it's hard to describe (having an elbow on a counter, open arms, head straight, slight smile..)
- HEAVY EYE CONTACT.. and i mean it. Dont flinch, dont follow the girls ass with your eyes!, but if you happen to get eye contact with a girl you like.. lock and keep it. (Apply 3S rule if needed and do a direct approch...)
- Be very attentive to your environnement. If a girl or a group of girls start dancing in front or beside you, that could be good IOI, dont miss them..
- Just dont stay at the same place all night: WALK SLOWLY/HEAVY EYE CONTACT/SMILE: ie. Project that aura of confidence that attract girl so much!
Often this spot have heavy traffic, so it's not rare that girl walk on my shoes.. so i open them with "Hey! That not a highway!" or anything C&F.
What's funny is that i have so many time been opened with "You dont dance?" line, that i now know it's on and am very agressive: the last girl that approched me like that, without answering i just looked in her eyes and kissed her on the neck, looked in her eyes and then on the mouth. She asked immediately my name after the kiss.. Got a full close same night.
I have noticed that this work well in bar where there is heavy competition, guys hitting hard and girl beeing annoyed by that. You project sexuality and NO DESESPERATION. Often, i will look at "players" hitting on girl in front of me, smilling, looking in the eye of the girl and the opening her.. you then laugh with her of all theses anoying guys, except you!ah! ah!, hitting on girls.. I like that very much!!
