vassago..very good tips bro..here are a couple of my dancefloor openers:
(1) insulting other dancers:
if i'm just about to go on the dance floor (hiphop nightclub), I'm usually holding a drink in one hand looking around the dancefloor. I try to spot a hottie on the edge of the dancefloor, who isn't dancing, and is looking out at the dancefloor too. I come up from behind her and stand next to her looking at the dancefloor with her. I try not to make it known that I have noticed her though. Then, I purposely look for the worst dancer in the joint. It's either the AFC guy who dances like a limp piece of spaghetti or the super XXL lady in the spandex top dancing like a fish out of water.
With a C/F attitude, I casually say to the hottie I'm standing next to:
looking at the girl: "I know you WISH you could dance like her, dayam..she's HOTTT!!!!"
or
looking at the guy: "You want me to ask that guy if you can dance with him...you know his moves are sooo sexy."
Saying it with tons of sarcasm and a goofy, C/F, attitude. I usually get a huge laugh or a "OH HELL NO" from the hottie.
I'll respond with: "Yea right, I bet you dance just like them, thats why you're not dancing now huh?"
Hottie usually responds with: "Not even...maybe you're the one who can't dance."
GAME ON: grab HB by the hand and prove your stuff.
another technique
(2) the neg hit
This technique has the similar effects as the first, and I use this one quite often when I'm already on the dancefloor with social proof girls. Try to get as close as possible to the HB you want to dance with, then slightly body bump her. Similar to Vassago's technique. I will look over to the girl I bumped, if the IL is high, she'll give me a smile. If it's next to none, then, bump someone else.
However, If the IL is high, then after bumping the girl, make eye contact with the HB and start mirroring her dance steps in front of her. But, instead of totally copying them, EXAGGERATE them. Let it be known that you are trying to do her dance moves, but, when you do them, it looks goofy or weird. It works best when you look like you're struggling to do the steps and have a confused look on your face.
Then talk in her ear: "where the hell did you learn these dance moves??? on the disney channel or a richard simmons workout?"
Her: "Oh you did not just say that...let me see some of your steps"
GAME ON...you got her attention and a challenge..now do your thing.
With the first technique, it's like a 3 in 5 chance the girl dances with me. I usually get a good conversation or a laugh from the other 2.
With the second technique, if the girl shows IL in me, than it works like 90% of the time.
These are just a couple of ways I get around on the dancefloor...if this stuff sounds lame right now, it probably is. But when you get some liquid courage and a C/F grin on your face..this stuff is golden. And you have to remember, the girl on the dancefloor is usually a bit drunk herself and is more open to advances from a C/F guy who is looking to have a good time.
-HQ
