"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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illmatic1005

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My gf is pretty weird....i think shes the type of girl who is insecure about herself..before we started goin out, she would act and dress real slutty and flirt with EVERY guy and just like random hookups.... i asked her what the farthest she went with a guy is and she said handj0bs and gave a bl0wj0b...she did it to a kid she knew for only 2 weeks...

the only problem is ive been dating her for over a month and she said shes scared of givin me a bj bcuz she says she thinks she'll bite me and thinks i'll break up with her bcuz of it...she always tells me how she wants to give me a HJ, but never does it..she is a virgin and said she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, but wants to be realistic...she also tells me she has dreams where i get her pregnant and how i may be 'the one', but she is scared of getting pregnant or whatever..

the only problem is that i dont kno if shes trying to play me or really does have deep feelings for me..

any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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j0n024

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Hmm maybe you should make her give you either a Blow or a hand job, I mean she flat out told you she "Wanted" to do it to you so call her on it and tell her to give you one. Maybe you can go out on a little date and when your in the car or if you go to a movie kino her and escalate it and motion her to give you some, that's what I would do or at least rub her t1ts and puss. good luck.
 

WaterTiger

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RED FLAG ALERT!

She wants to get pregnant?:eek: :confused: :eek:

She WANTS to get pregnant????

DUDE! Next this chick TODAY! She's nuts! Mommyhood ain't easy and unless you want to be a Daddy, don't sex this girl. You'll be paying child support for the next 18 years if you do.

RUN FOREST! RUN!
 

illmatic1005

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no no no....she is not sure if she wants to have sex or not because she is SCARED of getting pregnant...she doesnt wanna get pregnant
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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