"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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illmatic1005

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My gf is pretty weird....i think shes the type of girl who is insecure about herself..before we started goin out, she would act and dress real slutty and flirt with EVERY guy and just like random hookups.... i asked her what the farthest she went with a guy is and she said handj0bs and gave a bl0wj0b...she did it to a kid she knew for only 2 weeks...

the only problem is ive been dating her for over a month and she said shes scared of givin me a bj bcuz she says she thinks she'll bite me and thinks i'll break up with her bcuz of it...she always tells me how she wants to give me a HJ, but never does it..she is a virgin and said she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, but wants to be realistic...she also tells me she has dreams where i get her pregnant and how i may be 'the one', but she is scared of getting pregnant or whatever..

the only problem is that i dont kno if shes trying to play me or really does have deep feelings for me..

any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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j0n024

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Hmm maybe you should make her give you either a Blow or a hand job, I mean she flat out told you she "Wanted" to do it to you so call her on it and tell her to give you one. Maybe you can go out on a little date and when your in the car or if you go to a movie kino her and escalate it and motion her to give you some, that's what I would do or at least rub her t1ts and puss. good luck.
 

WaterTiger

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RED FLAG ALERT!

She wants to get pregnant?:eek: :confused: :eek:

She WANTS to get pregnant????

DUDE! Next this chick TODAY! She's nuts! Mommyhood ain't easy and unless you want to be a Daddy, don't sex this girl. You'll be paying child support for the next 18 years if you do.

RUN FOREST! RUN!
 

illmatic1005

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no no no....she is not sure if she wants to have sex or not because she is SCARED of getting pregnant...she doesnt wanna get pregnant
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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