"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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illmatic1005

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My gf is pretty weird....i think shes the type of girl who is insecure about herself..before we started goin out, she would act and dress real slutty and flirt with EVERY guy and just like random hookups.... i asked her what the farthest she went with a guy is and she said handj0bs and gave a bl0wj0b...she did it to a kid she knew for only 2 weeks...

the only problem is ive been dating her for over a month and she said shes scared of givin me a bj bcuz she says she thinks she'll bite me and thinks i'll break up with her bcuz of it...she always tells me how she wants to give me a HJ, but never does it..she is a virgin and said she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, but wants to be realistic...she also tells me she has dreams where i get her pregnant and how i may be 'the one', but she is scared of getting pregnant or whatever..

the only problem is that i dont kno if shes trying to play me or really does have deep feelings for me..

any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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j0n024

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Hmm maybe you should make her give you either a Blow or a hand job, I mean she flat out told you she "Wanted" to do it to you so call her on it and tell her to give you one. Maybe you can go out on a little date and when your in the car or if you go to a movie kino her and escalate it and motion her to give you some, that's what I would do or at least rub her t1ts and puss. good luck.
 

WaterTiger

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RED FLAG ALERT!

She wants to get pregnant?:eek: :confused: :eek:

She WANTS to get pregnant????

DUDE! Next this chick TODAY! She's nuts! Mommyhood ain't easy and unless you want to be a Daddy, don't sex this girl. You'll be paying child support for the next 18 years if you do.

RUN FOREST! RUN!
 

illmatic1005

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no no no....she is not sure if she wants to have sex or not because she is SCARED of getting pregnant...she doesnt wanna get pregnant
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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