MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Sounds like the UK is going to declare martial law in a year, at the rate this is going.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Not really. Just this guy is becoming my prime candidate for "soSuave drama queen".Originally posted by MetalFortress
Sounds like the UK is going to declare martial law in a year, at the rate this is going.
haha, nice 1 mate.Originally posted by blackbirdbeatle
If youre a visitor and are gettign harassed by a few, punch one in the face. It's good because 95% of them are pussies and they'll cry and run off and you'll feel much better. Part of the reason why most peopel don't do anything is because the chavs will come back with 20 more dirty little chavs and get you another day. They may be weak and pathetic but 20 of them will still fvck you up. The good thing about being a visitor is that by the time they get everyone rounded up you're gone, off to another country or city.
I think it should be a tourists duty to punch as many chavs in the face as possible.
personally, i've travelled a bit in northern america and in europe, and I am yet to come across a place as dangerous on the streets as the UK.Originally posted by WesCottII
Not really. Just this guy is becoming my prime candidate for "soSuave drama queen".
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
there aresome positive role modles,beckham not a bad one, but it seems nowadays everyones role model is dre/eminem and gay unit.Originally posted by Finlay
Yea, crime in Uk is rife, and to be honest it starts from a young age, the main point being that there is absolutely **** all to do for youngsters.
There are no role models for any young people either and its all gunna spiral out iof control pretty soon i agree.
i do agree that the media sensationalise everything!Originally posted by Alpine
I think it's the perception of crime and the way the media love to report more and more of these stories, that quite often never got reported in the past.
The other one is Pedos, who the hell wants to know the gory details of what some perv did, the media love it. Years ago these things rarely got reported on TV.
When I was at school a lad got hanged in a tree, someone got him down and that was that. The incident reported has yet to be confirmed, the first reprt was he was like 'swinging' hanging, now that he was found wondering with rope marks round his neck.
In terms of murders, the UK has a low annual total. To compare it to the States or South Africa, it's probably less than 5%.
If you have been a victim of crime though, none of this makes you feel any better.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I was going to make a similar point, but i thought best not to open a can of worms.Originally posted by Alpine
Don't take this the wrong way, but alot of violent crimes seem to be from ethnic groups. This could be a perception generated by the media and recent political events, but there does seem something in it.
I couldn't believe one the other week, some kiddie was tortured and nearly drowned in a river.
Turns out the family (from Africa) thought she was a witch![]()
Let's face it many parts of the world have a different take on the worth of human life, pain and suffering of others.
That one in Reading, have they caught anyone for that yet, there's more to that than meets the eye.
Originally posted by Jay-X
i have to be sincere: i have never heard anywhere apart from this thread that England is such a dangerous place. i also been there some years ago and it looked far more peaceful and calm than some places in italy. maybe, you are simply becoming a poorer country and becoming more and more similar to italy and portugal
anyway, i'm almost sure that there are far more dangerous streets in LA and Detroit than in Birmingham and Liverpool...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by Not Quite There
maybe everywhere is rough.... but its just seems differen't in the UK i think, i can't talk for italy though as i havent been there, and i know you have a lot of mafia problems. As we have discussed we have organised crime & gangs, but also its KIDS that are doign **** nowadays, today on the news 4 11 year old kids are being charged with attempted murder!
in barcelona, you get a lot of trouble with north african immigrants trying to rob you, but they jsut try and pick pocket you, if you catch them you can scare them off, where as in the UK people straight up pull a knife out to mug you/beat you up for no reason but the fun of it.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.