MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Sounds like the UK is going to declare martial law in a year, at the rate this is going.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not really. Just this guy is becoming my prime candidate for "soSuave drama queen".Originally posted by MetalFortress
Sounds like the UK is going to declare martial law in a year, at the rate this is going.
haha, nice 1 mate.Originally posted by blackbirdbeatle
If youre a visitor and are gettign harassed by a few, punch one in the face. It's good because 95% of them are pussies and they'll cry and run off and you'll feel much better. Part of the reason why most peopel don't do anything is because the chavs will come back with 20 more dirty little chavs and get you another day. They may be weak and pathetic but 20 of them will still fvck you up. The good thing about being a visitor is that by the time they get everyone rounded up you're gone, off to another country or city.
I think it should be a tourists duty to punch as many chavs in the face as possible.
personally, i've travelled a bit in northern america and in europe, and I am yet to come across a place as dangerous on the streets as the UK.Originally posted by WesCottII
Not really. Just this guy is becoming my prime candidate for "soSuave drama queen".
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
there aresome positive role modles,beckham not a bad one, but it seems nowadays everyones role model is dre/eminem and gay unit.Originally posted by Finlay
Yea, crime in Uk is rife, and to be honest it starts from a young age, the main point being that there is absolutely **** all to do for youngsters.
There are no role models for any young people either and its all gunna spiral out iof control pretty soon i agree.
i do agree that the media sensationalise everything!Originally posted by Alpine
I think it's the perception of crime and the way the media love to report more and more of these stories, that quite often never got reported in the past.
The other one is Pedos, who the hell wants to know the gory details of what some perv did, the media love it. Years ago these things rarely got reported on TV.
When I was at school a lad got hanged in a tree, someone got him down and that was that. The incident reported has yet to be confirmed, the first reprt was he was like 'swinging' hanging, now that he was found wondering with rope marks round his neck.
In terms of murders, the UK has a low annual total. To compare it to the States or South Africa, it's probably less than 5%.
If you have been a victim of crime though, none of this makes you feel any better.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I was going to make a similar point, but i thought best not to open a can of worms.Originally posted by Alpine
Don't take this the wrong way, but alot of violent crimes seem to be from ethnic groups. This could be a perception generated by the media and recent political events, but there does seem something in it.
I couldn't believe one the other week, some kiddie was tortured and nearly drowned in a river.
Turns out the family (from Africa) thought she was a witch![]()
Let's face it many parts of the world have a different take on the worth of human life, pain and suffering of others.
That one in Reading, have they caught anyone for that yet, there's more to that than meets the eye.
Originally posted by Jay-X
i have to be sincere: i have never heard anywhere apart from this thread that England is such a dangerous place. i also been there some years ago and it looked far more peaceful and calm than some places in italy. maybe, you are simply becoming a poorer country and becoming more and more similar to italy and portugal
anyway, i'm almost sure that there are far more dangerous streets in LA and Detroit than in Birmingham and Liverpool...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by Not Quite There
maybe everywhere is rough.... but its just seems differen't in the UK i think, i can't talk for italy though as i havent been there, and i know you have a lot of mafia problems. As we have discussed we have organised crime & gangs, but also its KIDS that are doign **** nowadays, today on the news 4 11 year old kids are being charged with attempted murder!
in barcelona, you get a lot of trouble with north african immigrants trying to rob you, but they jsut try and pick pocket you, if you catch them you can scare them off, where as in the UK people straight up pull a knife out to mug you/beat you up for no reason but the fun of it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.