Red_Tiger
Don Juan
by the way the table is correct....were on a BIG INCREASE
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hey. I'm from Nottingham, and i disagree. Those people were shot in the roughest part of town. Every town has a rough part.Originally posted by Red_Tiger
I might add UK gangster are ass rough as anything out there, ask the people of Nottingham
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Shame. It's a 4 to 2 ratio boys:girls at Nottingham.Originally posted by Cloud-uk
I was going to go to Nottingham Uni next year, but when i got into the town I kinda thought it was dirt. Armed police, with MP5s or whatever about, it didn't feel groovy. Still, that's just from my exceptionally limited experience. I'm from arround Stains and Woking, and they've been going down the ****ter for a good while now.
If anyone cares I'm going to York Uni now.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Its basically right on. Last I read it was DC, Chi, and LA as 1, 2, and 3.3. i'd like to know one thing. a guy in here said that the 3 most dangerous cities in the USA are Los Angeles, Phoenix and Washington DC. is that true? i have ever been told that detroit, houston, miami, new york and chicago were far more dangerous than phoenix and washington. actually
Have you ever tried to exercise this "right?"Our God-given right to bear arms is probably responsible for keeping crime down.
Originally posted by blackbirdbeatle
****ing Chavs. I went to the UK and ended up punching some 17 year old right in his stupid dirty chav face. Advice to some of us foreigners: Chavs like to sit at the top and the back of the double busses. Also, the bus driver doesn't do **** down there so you get these stupid ****ing ****s that are most likely 13 and work in packs to relentlessly swear at you, hit you, throw **** at you, etc... and it takes all your restraint not to smash their faces in. It's best to do what I do and hit one that looks to be of age.
The worst part is that the people in the UK just sit there and take it. These chavs assault anyone old women, minorities, etc... just because they know they can get away with it(Cause of thier age) and that the citizens won't do **** all. That wouldn't fly well in N. America.
If youre a visitor and are gettign harassed by a few, punch one in the face. It's good because 95% of them are pussies and they'll cry and run off and you'll feel much better. Part of the reason why most peopel don't do anything is because the chavs will come back with 20 more dirty little chavs and get you another day. They may be weak and pathetic but 20 of them will still fvck you up. The good thing about being a visitor is that by the time they get everyone rounded up you're gone, off to another country or city.
I think it should be a tourists duty to punch as many chavs in the face as possible.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by Cloud-uk
I was going to go to Nottingham Uni next year, but when i got into the town I kinda thought it was dirt. Armed police, with MP5s or whatever about, it didn't feel groovy. Still, that's just from my exceptionally limited experience. I'm from arround Stains and Woking, and they've been going down the ****ter for a good while now.
If anyone cares I'm going to York Uni now.
Yes.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Is the chav problem even prevalent in Ireland and Scotland? Those two come off as rougher, take no crap sort of societies, at least to us Americans.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.