Red_Tiger
Don Juan
by the way the table is correct....were on a BIG INCREASE
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hey. I'm from Nottingham, and i disagree. Those people were shot in the roughest part of town. Every town has a rough part.Originally posted by Red_Tiger
I might add UK gangster are ass rough as anything out there, ask the people of Nottingham
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Shame. It's a 4 to 2 ratio boys:girls at Nottingham.Originally posted by Cloud-uk
I was going to go to Nottingham Uni next year, but when i got into the town I kinda thought it was dirt. Armed police, with MP5s or whatever about, it didn't feel groovy. Still, that's just from my exceptionally limited experience. I'm from arround Stains and Woking, and they've been going down the ****ter for a good while now.
If anyone cares I'm going to York Uni now.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Its basically right on. Last I read it was DC, Chi, and LA as 1, 2, and 3.3. i'd like to know one thing. a guy in here said that the 3 most dangerous cities in the USA are Los Angeles, Phoenix and Washington DC. is that true? i have ever been told that detroit, houston, miami, new york and chicago were far more dangerous than phoenix and washington. actually
Have you ever tried to exercise this "right?"Our God-given right to bear arms is probably responsible for keeping crime down.
Originally posted by blackbirdbeatle
****ing Chavs. I went to the UK and ended up punching some 17 year old right in his stupid dirty chav face. Advice to some of us foreigners: Chavs like to sit at the top and the back of the double busses. Also, the bus driver doesn't do **** down there so you get these stupid ****ing ****s that are most likely 13 and work in packs to relentlessly swear at you, hit you, throw **** at you, etc... and it takes all your restraint not to smash their faces in. It's best to do what I do and hit one that looks to be of age.
The worst part is that the people in the UK just sit there and take it. These chavs assault anyone old women, minorities, etc... just because they know they can get away with it(Cause of thier age) and that the citizens won't do **** all. That wouldn't fly well in N. America.
If youre a visitor and are gettign harassed by a few, punch one in the face. It's good because 95% of them are pussies and they'll cry and run off and you'll feel much better. Part of the reason why most peopel don't do anything is because the chavs will come back with 20 more dirty little chavs and get you another day. They may be weak and pathetic but 20 of them will still fvck you up. The good thing about being a visitor is that by the time they get everyone rounded up you're gone, off to another country or city.
I think it should be a tourists duty to punch as many chavs in the face as possible.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Originally posted by Cloud-uk
I was going to go to Nottingham Uni next year, but when i got into the town I kinda thought it was dirt. Armed police, with MP5s or whatever about, it didn't feel groovy. Still, that's just from my exceptionally limited experience. I'm from arround Stains and Woking, and they've been going down the ****ter for a good while now.
If anyone cares I'm going to York Uni now.
Yes.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Is the chav problem even prevalent in Ireland and Scotland? Those two come off as rougher, take no crap sort of societies, at least to us Americans.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.