"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jadeona13 said:
another thing i'd like to mention..may sound AFC or whatever,,but its a big issue for me..

i want to break up with her and stuff but i always picture her in bed with another guy...it like haunts my mind...she very attractive and can get any guy she wants and just picturing her donig sexual things with another guy kills me inside..althought i try not to show it..i told her i wouldnt care if i saw caught her doing stuff with another guy after we broke up too and she almsot cried and asid she would car and be soo sad....i would definitely care, i just told her i wouldnt..

how do u guys deal with that?
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Would you rather her be fvcking another guy in her bed or the bed you guys share. That is really your choice. If she wants to fvck someone she will. Women can find any afc to fvck them no questions asked. But you will be more of an AFC if you stay with her b/c she will cheat on you because she does not respect you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jadeona13 said:
another thing i'd like to mention..may sound AFC or whatever,,but its a big issue for me..

i want to break up with her and stuff but i always picture her in bed with another guy...it like haunts my mind...she very attractive and can get any guy she wants and just picturing her donig sexual things with another guy kills me inside..althought i try not to show it..i told her i wouldnt care if i saw caught her doing stuff with another guy after we broke up too and she almsot cried and asid she would car and be soo sad....i would definitely care, i just told her i wouldnt..

how do u guys deal with that?
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Ohh Oh! I know! I Know! Uh... how 'bout you STOP CARING? Isn't that the basis of EVERYTHING that has been said here?
 
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KontrollerX - you said it was ok to cheat on a girl who took you back for her ego validation and stuff?

Why?
 
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jadeona13 said:
another thing i'd like to mention..may sound AFC or whatever,,but its a big issue for me..

i want to break up with her and stuff but i always picture her in bed with another guy...it like haunts my mind...she very attractive and can get any guy she wants and just picturing her donig sexual things with another guy kills me inside..althought i try not to show it..i told her i wouldnt care if i saw caught her doing stuff with another guy after we broke up too and she almsot cried and asid she would car and be soo sad....i would definitely care, i just told her i wouldnt..

how do u guys deal with that?
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I had this problem for the longest time with a girlfriend I had. Thr truth is, wether you like it or not she's gonna screw other guys. it happens, you gotta suck it up and let her go completely. But like, OMG she's super hot and all the guys want her? Who gives a sh!t? she probably takes you for granted anyway, so why do you care who she screws after you're done? do not worry, for if you take the teachings of this site and live by them, you will prosper in to a man who is capable of so much more than that boy so long ago who was afraid of losing a girl.
 
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