"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, as I said before I started working. There's this cool guy that trained me and is still training me and I think he's a cool guy. He has this girl I went to school with. They are kind of seeing each other but not really. This girl was looking me up and down and she wasn't laughing at me so I figure she may be digging me. She also stops to talk to me even though I'm kind of and will probably always be a loner.

I don't want to take this guys girl if they are serious but if not I mght. I just don't know. My mom told me last year not to get between a guy and a girl. I don't think he would care that much but then again:confused:. I could use help on this one. BTW, I'm on operation Bang EX
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chosen1 said:
Ok, as I said before I started working. There's this cool guy that trained me and is still training me and I think he's a cool guy. He has this girl I went to school with. They are kind of seeing each other but not really. This girl was looking me up and down and she wasn't laughing at me so I figure she may be digging me. She also stops to talk to me even though I'm kind of and will probably always be a loner.

I don't want to take this guys girl if they are serious but if not I mght. I just don't know. My mom told me last year not to get between a guy and a girl. I don't think he would care that much but then again:confused:. I could use help on this one. BTW, I'm on operation Bang EX
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I'd let it play out a little more. If she is digging you then go for it. That's an obvious sign she's not serious with the other guy. All I ever do is get with a girl once and forget about her. My motto in college was "After I fukk 'em I don't know 'em." Maybe that guy thinks along those same lines. I don't see why alot of guys wanna fight if their girl cheats. Just chalk it up and move on with it.
 
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This what I was thinking, I don't really want to have a one night stand type of thing maybe a ten night stand (style). I also know if anything do play out I'm gonna have to rap it up.
 
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you know more about the situation than either of us, but I'd say just flirt with her any if you see any opportune moments to get with her, go for it


Btw, when did these google ads start appearing after the first post of every thread?
 
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Chosen1 said:
My mom told me last year not to get between a guy and a girl.
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Never take relationship advice from a woman, least of all your Mom! :woo:

That said, Bros before Hoes. If you value this dudes friendship, perhaps not the best idea to try to nail his girl - At least, not without asking him what his relationship with her is first.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If this is just not your imagination then tell your bro that she is a ho!!!
 
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