"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok, as I said before I started working. There's this cool guy that trained me and is still training me and I think he's a cool guy. He has this girl I went to school with. They are kind of seeing each other but not really. This girl was looking me up and down and she wasn't laughing at me so I figure she may be digging me. She also stops to talk to me even though I'm kind of and will probably always be a loner.

I don't want to take this guys girl if they are serious but if not I mght. I just don't know. My mom told me last year not to get between a guy and a girl. I don't think he would care that much but then again:confused:. I could use help on this one. BTW, I'm on operation Bang EX
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chosen1 said:
Ok, as I said before I started working. There's this cool guy that trained me and is still training me and I think he's a cool guy. He has this girl I went to school with. They are kind of seeing each other but not really. This girl was looking me up and down and she wasn't laughing at me so I figure she may be digging me. She also stops to talk to me even though I'm kind of and will probably always be a loner.

I don't want to take this guys girl if they are serious but if not I mght. I just don't know. My mom told me last year not to get between a guy and a girl. I don't think he would care that much but then again:confused:. I could use help on this one. BTW, I'm on operation Bang EX
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I'd let it play out a little more. If she is digging you then go for it. That's an obvious sign she's not serious with the other guy. All I ever do is get with a girl once and forget about her. My motto in college was "After I fukk 'em I don't know 'em." Maybe that guy thinks along those same lines. I don't see why alot of guys wanna fight if their girl cheats. Just chalk it up and move on with it.
 
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This what I was thinking, I don't really want to have a one night stand type of thing maybe a ten night stand (style). I also know if anything do play out I'm gonna have to rap it up.
 
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you know more about the situation than either of us, but I'd say just flirt with her any if you see any opportune moments to get with her, go for it


Btw, when did these google ads start appearing after the first post of every thread?
 
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My mom told me last year not to get between a guy and a girl.
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Never take relationship advice from a woman, least of all your Mom! :woo:

That said, Bros before Hoes. If you value this dudes friendship, perhaps not the best idea to try to nail his girl - At least, not without asking him what his relationship with her is first.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If this is just not your imagination then tell your bro that she is a ho!!!
 
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