"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ugly men are hammering their faces so that the bones heal in a more Chad-like manner

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One man, who posts videos online, says it is "not uncommon" for hardcore Incels to repeatedly tap cheekbones, chins, brows and orbitals with a hammer in a bizarre attempt to 'sculpt' their faces.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are incel men actually doing the things this article talks about? Aka watching videos of deaths, beheadings, etc?
 

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I mean there's different levels of hammer, from toffee right up to sledge.
Lots of scope to get this very wrong.
 

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Are incel men actually doing the things this article talks about? Aka watching videos of deaths, beheadings, etc?
Incels are the new bogeyman for the media to scapegoat. Most incels are just normal people who are a little bit socially awkward so they struggle to meet women.

The media acts like they are some satanic cult out to murder every woman on the planet.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Must be an ego boost to have a choice?
I don't feel boosted by opting out. I don't understand the rules of engagement
so it's just easier.
 

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I don't feel boosted by opting out. I don't understand the rules of engagement
so it's just easier.
High interest level women take care of that. You are not seeing high interest women? I thought you were a chick magnet but just said no. You are a normie then?
 

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Thing is ,they should hammer on their personality ..

No ,I do kinda respect the fact these men are willing to do anything to" improve ". Its the equivalent of women getting botox, azz lifts ect,just to be favored by the opposite sex. Extreme measures.

Incels are the new bogeyman for the media to scapegoat. Most incels are just normal people who are a little bit socially awkward so they struggle to meet women.

The media acts like they are some satanic cult out to murder every woman on the planet.
We men dont die as easy as we used to. There are no wars, physical labor is replaced by machinery. Medical advancements keep us alive much longer.

Add to that the whole dating dynamic that changed. Times were never easier for men, and simultaneously times were never harder for men...
 

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Incels are the new bogeyman for the media to scapegoat. Most incels are just normal people who are a little bit socially awkward so they struggle to meet women.

The media acts like they are some satanic cult out to murder every woman on the planet.
Sounds about right for the media.
 

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Lends new meaning to "Let's go get hammered".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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These guys will just go from getting hammered at the dr's office to the same thing at the bar, with the same results as before.
 

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These guys will just go from getting hammered at the dr's office to the same thing at the bar, with the same results as before.
They're do-it-yourselfers.
 
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