"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ugly guys who get girls?

DJnoob

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I was just thinking... so I ive read alot about the "ugly" guy who gets alot of hot chicks to hang around with him.. he is funny, knows the right things to say, tells you how it is, blah blah blah...

Do these chicks hang around him for their entertainment and thus making this ugly guy look good to other people (like some of us) and makes us believe that he is REALLY getting laid by these hot women.

or

is he really getting laid by these hot women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wjh

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You're over-generalizing.

But it's safe to say that both situations may be fairly common.
 

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It doesn't really matter, because you're not going to settle for being either... are you?
 

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Been there... Seen it.... it does happen but.....

Both situations are not as common as you'd think... Uglier guys have obvious self esteem and confidence issues which puts them behind the 8 ball to begin with..... However, its just something to overcome,
 

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Daaamnnn, people hate too much...Congatulate that man, cause even if hes ugly, he still has women...The people who make these threads are prolly mad cause they arnt getting any and the ugly dudes are, lol...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I actually respect and analyse their behaviour. Like last time on the train, I put my headphones on and just stared across (I was sitting on one of those seats where you face each other). The girl was hot, the guy was quite below average. But just out of interest I decided to analyse their behaviours.
 

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Originally posted by Robo-Kai
I actually respect and analyse their behaviour. Like last time on the train, I put my headphones on and just stared across (I was sitting on one of those seats where you face each other). The girl was hot, the guy was quite below average. But just out of interest I decided to analyse their behaviours.
So, did your analysis turn up anything interesting?
 

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Like what most/everyone else says, it's all down to attraction, isn't it? That girl was clearly having a good time, lots of laughs and kisses. This was a 3 hour train journey. Heh ...
 

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I doubt the attractive girl is hanging around an unattractive guy just for entertainment or using him. Usually the unattractive guy has to overcome more obstacles than an attractive guy so he has a self-built and self-improving toughness into him.

A good fictional example would be the movie Shrek where Shrek is a hideous monster that everyone is terrorized of including the attractive princess until she realizes that he's not much different from her (inner body wise.)

Obviously the couple is not mismatched if you watch carefully. A tough unattractive confident guy will usually be paired up with a more childish feminine attractive girl. They both complement each other.
 
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