"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ugly guys getting a hot girl

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Voice said:
The way you carry yourself has to do with your confidence/swagger/style/humor not how good looking you are.

I still can't see how you can see that 9/10s ONLY go for great looking guys. I can think of supermodels who have ugly guys. Heidi Klum is married to Seal, Adriana Lima is married to Marko Jaric.
swagger/style are also other ways of saying "looks". And yes, supermodels do not go for ugly guys. Seal is attractive because he has $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and status in the music industry. Something most unattractive guys can never have. Do you think for one second that she would be attracted to him if he were poor? Same thing with Jaric-- except he is 6'7"... how many guys do you know who are 6'7" tall and make millions per year?

Both of your examples prove me right. Thank you. Bottom line is: if you are an average guy, stop deluding yourself into thinking that you can score a hottie. You will only get to keep one when you are exceptional and not in any way average.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Duffdog said:
swagger/style are also other ways of saying "looks". And yes, supermodels do not go for ugly guys. Seal is attractive because he has $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and status in the music industry. Something most unattractive guys can never have. Do you think for one second that she would be attracted to him if he were poor? Same thing with Jaric-- except he is 6'7"... how many guys do you know who are 6'7" tall and make millions per year?

Both of your examples prove me right. Thank you. Bottom line is: if you are an average guy, stop deluding yourself into thinking that you can score a hottie. You will only get to keep one when you are exceptional and not in any way average.
Hey Duffdog.

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and status in the music industry is something most unattractive guys can never have? Look at Mike Jones, Paul Wall, Chamillionaire, Flava Flav, Fat Joe, Ruben Studdard, etc.

And people who are 6'7" making millions a year? Look at Shaq, Tim Duncan, Michael Jordan, Scottie Pippen, etc. It's most of the NBA/ NFL. Watch these people on MTV Cribs.

Let me ask you something. Have you heard that song "Couldn't get far?" Check it out on Youtube and notice they talk about the same sh*t. Listen to the lyrics. "Would you roll with Ne-Yo if he drove a Geo?" Just an example. Or go to OHHLA.com and look it up.

You should know that if you're rich and ugly, there's a thing called steroids and plastic surgery.

I read an e-book called Guy Gets Girl By Tiffany Taylor and it says that (I think) 12% of women get hot and horny over a man who's rich and has finer material possessions (Rolls Royce Phantom, Mansion worth 8 figures, chauffeurs, chefs in the kitchen, etc.)

WTF? Duffdog, you and I know how backwards this sh*t is. Ripley's wouldn't even believe that sh*t!

People who say looks don't matter are either delusional or business people trying to sell a product to a crowded audience of dateless, out-of-luck men. Ugly guys with status and money are attractive in a woman's view. Extra points if the guy becomes better looking.
 

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Duffdog said:
swagger/style are also other ways of saying "looks". And yes, supermodels do not go for ugly guys. Seal is attractive because he has $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and status in the music industry. Something most unattractive guys can never have. Do you think for one second that she would be attracted to him if he were poor? Same thing with Jaric-- except he is 6'7"... how many guys do you know who are 6'7" tall and make millions per year?

Both of your examples prove me right. Thank you. Bottom line is: if you are an average guy, stop deluding yourself into thinking that you can score a hottie. You will only get to keep one when you are exceptional and not in any way average.
Actually you proved me right. Saying that Seal is attractive because he has money and status, proves that there are other things besides just looks that get girls attention. Seal is still an ugly dude with scars all over his face no matter how much money and fame he has. Besides, do you think these supermodels need a guy to provide for them? Heidi Klum probably makes more money than Seal does. They don't need a rich man to be financially stable.

Swagger and style are not looks, I don't know why you keep saying that. Looks=physical appearance, ugly or good looking. Swagger and style=what kinds of clothes you wear, hairstyle, how you show confidence, the way you walk and talk. A gut can be physically ugly, yet still have great style and swagger, kind of like Seal and Marko.
 

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Hey Duffdog.

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and status in the music industry is something most unattractive guys can never have? Look at Mike Jones, Paul Wall, Chamillionaire, Flava Flav, Fat Joe, Ruben Studdard, etc.

And people who are 6'7" making millions a year? Look at Shaq, Tim Duncan, Michael Jordan, Scottie Pippen, etc. It's most of the NBA/ NFL. Watch these people on MTV Cribs.

Let me ask you something. Have you heard that song "Couldn't get far?" Check it out on Youtube and notice they talk about the same sh*t. Listen to the lyrics. "Would you roll with Ne-Yo if he drove a Geo?" Just an example. Or go to OHHLA.com and look it up.

You should know that if you're rich and ugly, there's a thing called steroids and plastic surgery.

I read an e-book called Guy Gets Girl By Tiffany Taylor and it says that (I think) 12% of women get hot and horny over a man who's rich and has finer material possessions (Rolls Royce Phantom, Mansion worth 8 figures, chauffeurs, chefs in the kitchen, etc.)

WTF? Duffdog, you and I know how backwards this sh*t is. Ripley's wouldn't even believe that sh*t!

People who say looks don't matter are either delusional or business people trying to sell a product to a crowded audience of dateless, out-of-luck men. Ugly guys with status and money are attractive in a woman's view. Extra points if the guy becomes better looking.
Every one of those people you mentioned are superstars and not average people. That is the point. The art of "pick up" is for average guys only, so comparing yourself to seal by saying that you are just like seal because he is unattractive is not only not helpful, but will never give you the success you are looking for.

This is just common sense, its not any amazing ground breaking material. I don't understand what the problem is, if you are a superstar you get women no matter what you look like. If you are rich you get women no matter what you look like, if you are neither of those, you had better be attractive or your never going to keep any hotties. There is no argument for this. For more information, read my signature.
 

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Duffdog said:
Every one of those people you mentioned are superstars and not average people. That is the point. The art of "pick up" is for average guys only, so comparing yourself to seal by saying that you are just like seal because he is unattractive is not only not helpful, but will never give you the success you are looking for.

This is just common sense, its not any amazing ground breaking material. I don't understand what the problem is, if you are a superstar you get women no matter what you look like. If you are rich you get women no matter what you look like, if you are neither of those, you had better be attractive or your never going to keep any hotties. There is no argument for this. For more information, read my signature.
That signature is not so groundbreaking either. There's gotta be handsome/ ugly, rich/ poor, smart/ dumb, etc. Balance of nature (Yin-Yang), let me stop with the goddamn Chinese philosophy.

Marko Jaric is in the NBA. How would you look if you were in the NBA?

But on a real, of course all those people are superstars! And I answered your above question about guys 6'7" making millions a year. Common sense!

Maybe that wasn't the kind of answer you were looking for, my bad. I probably just misunderstood you.

But, FWIW, there are some people who are not and can still pull hot babes! Then there are pseudo-stars i.e. local celebs. They can easily pull chicks too. I've been there back in 2003, 2004, & 2005. Had a 98 Nissan Sentra, pimped out, looked like a BMW without being riced and got lucky enough to date a couple New Orleans Hornets' Honeybees (Cheerleaders). Each date lasted about as long as an episode of Dallas or Dynasty. Obviously I was at a huge disadvantage cuz the players had REAL BMW's, Lexuses, Mercedes, Bentleys, etc. They could easily swoop in and steal those girls.

Money and status speaks a lot of you. Common sense. A tricked out common Japanese/ domestic car will be beaten by someone who has an actual top-end car like a Maserati/ Aston Martin/ Maybach, etc. This is also a common sense point, but it needs to be said here. Happened to me, as shown in the paragraph above.

The point is the rich and famous have to do little, if not any work to get a hot babe and keep her. A poor guy or average guy has to evade the traps like Indiana Jones in Raiders of the lost ark. i.e. deal with sh*t tests, build a social circle, get labeled as a loner/ loser, etc.

If the average guy gets a hot babe, someone with superstar status can easily get that same one...off your arm...in a small fraction of the time it took your normal ass to get that one hot babe. But the average guy learned a lesson when approaching. For more info, read my signature.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is how it works:

Each girl has its own standard according to looks she can settle down with ore have sex with.

If a girl don`t like the first impression (within her standard) she will not change her mind. Its the hard fact. But most girls standard is wide, this is because they can settle for bad boys with no money and not so good looks.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Money and status speaks a lot of you. Common sense. A tricked out common Japanese/ domestic car will be beaten by someone who has an actual top-end car like a Maserati/ Aston Martin/ Maybach, etc. This is also a common sense point, but it needs to be said here. Happened to me, as shown in the paragraph above.

The point is the rich and famous have to do little, if not any work to get a hot babe and keep her. A poor guy or average guy has to evade the traps like Indiana Jones in Raiders of the lost ark. i.e. deal with sh*t tests, build a social circle, get labeled as a loner/ loser, etc.

If the average guy gets a hot babe, someone with superstar status can easily get that same one...off your arm...in a small fraction of the time it took your normal ass to get that one hot babe. But the average guy learned a lesson when approaching. For more info, read my signature.
Nismo, I will say that the average guy needs balls to approach, but the high echelon guy needs balls to just go somewhere and post up. 'Nuff said.

I agree with you and Duffdog though, the average guy has to try, the superstar does not. He gets women using no, if not little game.

Also, to address the boyfriend bullsh*t, if you're high with money, status, or looks, or a combination of these, you will hear this crap 1/5 of the time, if not less, and even then it'll be easy for you to take the girl away. If not, you will hear this 7/10 times, give or take 2, and you gotta slowly open the gates to her nookie and lovin'!

Wow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Megaman XIV said:
Nismo, I will say that the average guy needs balls to approach, but the high echelon guy needs balls to just go somewhere and post up.
Why would you say this, Megaman? It's obviously not due to experience or else you would never utter such a ridiculous statement. Did you see this in a movie? Have you been talking to nerdboy/Otis Lee?

I don't know where you guys get this garbage, but you should take a look at the Bible. It's pretty obvious you haven't read it.
 
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