"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ugly girls get upset when you check them out as opposed to hot ones?

Bonafide

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Lol its because they are like "WHAT THE FVCK COULD U POSSIBLY BE LOOKING AT ME FOR, IM UGLY!!" "HMM...YOU MUST WANT TO FIGHT"

lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nando

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but it's the same with average chicks guys, I guess you're all right, damn, so it's harder to pick the ugs/averages huh? I thought it would be easier!!! :p
 

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I dunno. I don't think how a girl looks has anything to do with reaction. Most girls I encounter, if i look them in the eye and give them the look, feel complemented rather then angry. However it's possible for anyone to be having a bad day, then there's a chance i'll get a negative reaction.
 

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nando said:
I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that?
Why are you assuming it has to do with you? Maybe the ugly girl was upset because didn't get her Egg McMuffin in the morning.
 

nando

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DonJuan11 said:
Why are you assuming it has to do with you? Maybe the ugly girl was upset because didn't get her Egg McMuffin in the morning.
cuz they look back then turn around angrily and mutter to themselves
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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