"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ugly girl pursues YOU: compliment or insult??

dutchmaster

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It depends. Usually if you give off a very high value vibe they won't even try because they don't think they are good enough, but then there's other ones with some balls or convinced that they're hot sh!t because some guys fvcked with them for easy pu55y and now they have an ego. Personally if she's tolerable enough to kiss I dont mind a free bj.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sstype

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I've had a few instances of ugly girls approaching/hitting on me usually when they've had enough to drink and can muster up the courage haha. Other than that I usually catch a few coy glances and mild flirting but never being outright approached. Most women are cowards and take rejection extremely bad, so they'd rather sit and let the guy do most of the work.

If we're talking random occurences then its more than likely a compliment that women generally find you attractive and a few of them just so happened to have the balls (or ovaries?) to break girl-code and pursue you. They seem to take it hard when you don't pursue them back, to them its a rejection and I've had women who've dropped hints go stone cold on me when I wouldn't take their bait.

OTOH, if ugly/fat women are consistently hitting on you in a very dominant manner then you're probably giving off submissive vibes. I usually think of a very skinny non-threatening dude, most of them are the biggest fat chick magnets for that very reason.

I highly doubt the latter is the case for you.
 

FairShake

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Any girl into your looks should be a compliment, although I'd be far more complimented if they like your personality.

As for low value assumptions because of ugly girls hitting on you...you guys are nuts. Ugly girls will hit on the good looking, medium, and bad looking. Just like guys.
 
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