"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ugly girl pursues YOU: compliment or insult??

dutchmaster

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It depends. Usually if you give off a very high value vibe they won't even try because they don't think they are good enough, but then there's other ones with some balls or convinced that they're hot sh!t because some guys fvcked with them for easy pu55y and now they have an ego. Personally if she's tolerable enough to kiss I dont mind a free bj.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sstype

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I've had a few instances of ugly girls approaching/hitting on me usually when they've had enough to drink and can muster up the courage haha. Other than that I usually catch a few coy glances and mild flirting but never being outright approached. Most women are cowards and take rejection extremely bad, so they'd rather sit and let the guy do most of the work.

If we're talking random occurences then its more than likely a compliment that women generally find you attractive and a few of them just so happened to have the balls (or ovaries?) to break girl-code and pursue you. They seem to take it hard when you don't pursue them back, to them its a rejection and I've had women who've dropped hints go stone cold on me when I wouldn't take their bait.

OTOH, if ugly/fat women are consistently hitting on you in a very dominant manner then you're probably giving off submissive vibes. I usually think of a very skinny non-threatening dude, most of them are the biggest fat chick magnets for that very reason.

I highly doubt the latter is the case for you.
 

FairShake

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Any girl into your looks should be a compliment, although I'd be far more complimented if they like your personality.

As for low value assumptions because of ugly girls hitting on you...you guys are nuts. Ugly girls will hit on the good looking, medium, and bad looking. Just like guys.
 
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