Ugly chicks jealous of my GF and Me, act like b!tches to us.

[spax]

So I was at the local pool today with my girlfriend. We were swimming around, and just bobbing about in the water together. To onlookers, we would have looked like a couple, but it was pretty crowded, so we didnt stand out too much.

There were these 2 girls - one was fat, and the other was ugly, and they were throwing a tennis ball in the water. One of them doesn't catch the ball, and it hits my gf on the side of the head, and kind of hurts her. Im angry, so turn around, and they giggle. I throw the ball away.

We were still lulling about in the water together, when i get tapped on the shoulder. I turn around, and the 2 ugs are nearby and look away. Then I get a tap on the shoulder again, and I quickly turn around and It was on of the ugs, so i grab her on the shoulder, and say 'Excuse me?" in an irritated tone. She jumps away and says 'Im joking, im joking'. Grr....

Then as we were leaving, the 2 of them were sitting near the exit, and they giggle in a mean way as we walk by.

B1tches. Given that they were both ugly and I saw them trying to flirt with random guys with no success, I predict that they were jealous of my gf. Im pretty good looking, and so is she.

How should I have handled this? I feel a little demasculated. I should have stood up more for my gf, or turned around wen they laughed, and said while pointing at each one 'You're fat, and you're ugly. Go get fvcked'.

 

[Smack]

Well they are fat and/or ugly. Why does it matter what they think?

 

[Desdinova]

Regardless of what the woman looks like, consider it a compliment when they flirt with you (which is what they were doing). The tennis ball issue may or may not have been intentional. Your gf should have recieved an apology. I would have confidently but calmly confronted the one who threw the ball. Women will be intimidated by a men they're interested in, so you should have nothing to fear about confronting her about the issue. Not only will you get respect from the ugs, but you will get respect from your gf.

 

[chinwaggler]

Confrontation is sometimes the best answer

 

[slaog]

I think you overreacted. They were just having fun and it might have been an accident when they hit your GF with the tennis ball. It's not exactly a bullet.


Don't presume the worst.


Because of your overreaction they saw how easy it was to wind you up and they decided to use you as entertainment. Not very DJ.


Stay in control always and people will respect you more.

 

[DonJuanit0]

In my opinion you acted great! I might have acted even worse than that! I also agree with someone who said that you should take it as a compliment... Beside that they were annoying and were making you feel uncomfortable as I understood so you acted correctly...

 

[Telos]

I would have immediately at the first offense swam over and started talking to the girls, firmly making it clear that I have no tolerance for that sort of idiocy. They saw that you did absolutely nothing with each successive attempt at pissing you off--hence why they kept going.

While childish, I'd probably just point to some really huge ugly dude and tell them he's more in their league... or just start screaming "BEACHED WHALE, MAN THE HARPOONS" extremely loud and pointing in their direction.

 

[OTB]

I should have stood up more for my gf, or turned around wen they laughed, and said while pointing at each one 'You're fat, and you're ugly. Go get fvcked'.

You should have said, "You're fat, you're ugly. You'll never get fvcked"

 

[daygameguy]

I think you overreacted. They were just having fun and it might have been an accident when they hit your GF with the tennis ball. It's not exactly a bullet.


Don't presume the worst.


Because of your overreaction they saw how easy it was to wind you up and they decided to use you as entertainment. Not very DJ.


Stay in control always and people will respect you more.

Best answer. +1