"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ugh... I posted this in the wrong place

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NYC Dude

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I don't care if you posted it in the wrong place, nor do I care that you made another post about the SAME EXACT THING with the same message: "I know I'm posting this in the wrong place, and instead of just not posting I'll let you know that I'm an idiot." Either get your act together or leave, you're cluttering these forums with useless posts
 

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I think he probably edited an existing post of his.
 

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Shoot, I just realized that there is no "edited by ______ on _/_/_ at _:_" after you edit a post. Well, if that is the case than excuse my harsh attitude. But if not, then I'm mad.
 
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