Ugent advise needed

[cjb]

Let me get straight to the point.
> There is this 24 yr old lady t work that i really like a lot man.
> Im 26 and started working here recently. When i saw here the first day i
> send her an email saying that i think she is good looking and we started
> emailing at work and then started meeting for cigarette brakes. we also
> went for drinks once.
> the thing is, she has a boyfriend and always had one.
> Anyway "relationship/friendship" went on between us but nothing
> happened. then she just said to me one day that she wnt leave her
> bfriend and we should stop being so close.
> i never told her to leave her boyfriend. we just stopped emailing. I
> send her email asking hows she is doing, but no responds.
> Do you think that its all lost and that she will not leave her
> boyfriend? Then why did we get along so well and even went fro drinks?
> So wheat did i do wrong and what should be done next?
> Please advise.

 

[Apocalypse Now]

Don't pay attention to her anymore. Let her see you flirt with other employees. She'll either come around or she won't, but start accepting that she won't.

 

[cjb]

Hey Apocalypse Now.
We work in different departments so we hardly see each other, so the chances of her seeing me flirting with another employee are pretty slim. Does this mean that this is it?