"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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noirsake

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I get this one alot in txt form "Hey whats up?"
I don't want to say "nothing much u?" coz thats an AFC move. I dont know too many responses besides "I will txt u l8r. Im playing w/ my star wars action figures right now"

any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jariel

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You can send text messages telling people you're skydiving or having rampant sex with a Victoria's Secret Model if you want to, but it won't stop you from being an AFC if in reality you're just jerking to porn.

So, if you're always telling people you're not doing much, you need to start doing something with your time.
 

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noirsake said:
I get this one alot in txt form "Hey whats up?"
I don't want to say "nothing much u?" coz thats an AFC move. I dont know too many responses besides "I will txt u l8r. Im playing w/ my star wars action figures right now"

any ideas?
There was a girl I was recently talking to who kept sending me late night text messages. I told her to stop sending them and call me to have a real conversation when she's ready. I think txting back and forth is lame. If you're going to send a message to someone's phone why not just call them and say it?

Only time I use it is sending someone directions, or maybe just a quick thing that needs no answer like "hope you're having a good day!" or something like that. But a back and forth conversation, why bother?
 

Dannyrt34

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Oh man, i hate texts. In fact, i dislike talking on the phone completely. Face to face contact is the only way to go.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jariel

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I have no problem with texts. I don't have the time to talk on the phone all the time or go and meet up with them, so texts are easy to read and send when I'm not so busy.
 

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Check out my post on text messages here. It has a lot of opinions from many of the board's top posters.
 

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noirsake said:
I get this one alot in txt form "Hey whats up?"
I don't want to say "nothing much u?" coz thats an AFC move. I dont know too many responses besides "I will txt u l8r. Im playing w/ my star wars action figures right now"

any ideas?
The less you write, the more power you have. Give her something like "wanna do somthng wednesdy" or "movie tuesday?". Don't send her a long message because you'll look like a dork. Keep it simple and feel free to make as many spelling mistakes as you want... cuz it implies that you don't care that much.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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speakeasy said:
There was a girl I was recently talking to who kept sending me late night text messages. I told her to stop sending them and call me to have a real conversation when she's ready. I think txting back and forth is lame. If you're going to send a message to someone's phone why not just call them and say it?

Only time I use it is sending someone directions, or maybe just a quick thing that needs no answer like "hope you're having a good day!" or something like that. But a back and forth conversation, why bother?
I strongly agree, I never have text message conversations. One of my friends texted for over an hour confirming a date with a girl that he had planned on seeing that night, but the longer he texted, the more the girl became uninterested and started to make up BS excuses that she had a headache.

My opinion, if he had called her and talked for 2-3 minutes he would have avoided her cold feet and flakines.

I prefer real conversations on the phone and only use text messages when it's late at night or early morning, to send messages that need to be written down (addresses, phone numbers, directions, and quick messages, or alternate to leaving a voicemail)

Plus text messages can add up and cost mucho $$$
 
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