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[djinhell]

sorry, thread deleted

 

[Slick101]

WTF U beating around the bush.... NOW you need to be direct... she wont text you back now bcuz she will feel NEEDY...

Arrange a date with her... Reframe urselfff

 

[Phoenix]

Your kissing her ass in those texts man... texting is ALL about pretending they're hitting on you, arousing their attention then replying at super random intervals... one thing you must remain conscious of is leaving an opening somewhere for them to find a reason to text back without seeming like their chasing you themselves, women harbour the fantasy that they are letting you into their reality so don't blow it by sending closed and uninteresting texts, at the same time you have always DHV.

I find asking questions in texts is FAR needier than in person, always try to make statements if possible.

 

[djinhell]

lol, so I guess I should just call her direct and ask her out.

Urgh, I really hate doing this...I know im being afc about it!..its just I know how easily it can fvck up if I try calling her and she doesn't answer

 

[Phoenix]

I have a better idea for you

Go out with her and your friend again, then isolate her from there.

 

[djinhell]

yeah man, y'see thats what I was thinking. You see her friend is going out with my best friend, so they are a couple, and then it was me and her last time..so I was thinking of trying something similar again

Thanks

 

[Phoenix]

Good luck bro

 

[Allurre]

It's good you didn't send a text right after.

Wait for 1-2 days to go by, or ask her OUT next time you bump into her.

And this time, no booze involved.

 

[GrimPhallic]

I do not believe in the waiting bs for text messaging... different rules apply. I would text her something funny/****y/sexual comedy every now and then. Try to make it something she has to reply to, then start a small convo with her. Interrupt the convo and tell you you have to go, and to call you later. If she is truely interested, she will call. This works almost every time for me. Then when she calls you later ask her out. If she doesnt call, dont talk to her any more, period, just stop. This will prove more to you about her - if she did like you and just didnt call, she will flip out about you ignoring her. If she didnt like you, she will not talk to you anymore and you didnt have to waste your time.

 

[GrimPhallic]

Oh and never NEVER say stuff like, "hope you dont mind", that was weak.