"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Two women, which way to go?

L.A. Tripp

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A friend is involved with two women. MLTR's. One he has been with for a few years, the other for almost 5 months.

Having kids with both possibly.

Neither woman is exactly what he is looking for. At times he feels like cutting them both loose and starting fresh, while of course keeping ties with them for the kid's sake. The problem is, he can't get either one out of his head. They both offer things that he is looking for, just not the whole package.

They each already have a child as well. They work in totally different jobs, different fields. They both support themselves just fine. Neither one wants to let him go. They both know about each other.

He's trying to figure out if either woman is worth "sticking it out" with, or if he should just start fresh.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Youre friend is a retard. Why the hell would you post his problem that only he can make a decision about?
 

baurman

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Don't be embarassed. We all know this "friend" is actually you.
 

CarbonFX

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baurman said:
Don't be embarassed. We all know this "friend" is actually you.
There is something about that that just cracked me up lol.
 
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