"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Two Weeks

base2ball2boy2

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Hey guys,

I have two weeks before I go off to school. Got anything good I can do for two weeks besides video games?

Learn a new skill?
Do something cool?
Etc...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alle_Gory

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base2ball2boy2 said:
Got anything good I can do for two weeks besides video games?
Yes. Turn off the PS3 and go for a walk. Just a walk, no iPod, no friends... nothing. Just take a relaxing walk by yourself distraction free for 20min.
The ideas will flow after awhile. The key is to let them happen, distraction free. Then do whatever you think is best.

Have a car, bike? Work on it, clean it, mod it. Play guitar, listen to some music, go jogging... etc. There's lots of things to do.
 
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Sir Psycho Sexy

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Get a new hobby. If you spend 15 minutes searching on the internet you can find something you may really enjoy.

For example I brew wine for fun, its very cheap and easy. As a bonus you dont have to be 21 to make.
 
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