wow so i was hangin with my gf of two weeks tonight and we go to a bar where she tells me not to act like we're together bc her ex's friends hang out there and she said she "wanted to avoid drama since she got with me so quickly after breaking it off w him", then in there she introduces me to them and when they left they say somethin like, "we'll tell dave his gf says hi".. i was like wtf.. and so they leave and i bring it up and she says they were just trying to psych me out and stand up for their boy. Who do i believe and how do i handle this ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
two-timed?
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