HeyPachuco!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Two things women hate hearing
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HeyPachuco!
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Rofl.
Guys, for a few days every month women are INSANE because of their periods (hormones and feelings and stuff) and we better not mess with them when insanity controlls their bodies... So, be aware of that and don't hate them for being women... Remember that they still have a lot what to offer, so don't ebd relationships because you had "an incident" where the girl just went nuts and your male logical brain could not understand why the f&#k that happened...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
AlexTheGreat
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I listened and learned nothing interesting.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Now I know how dogs feel when their owner is trying to tell them something.
"blah, blah, blah, blah blah, blah blah, blah ,..fluffy,..blah, blah blah, blah ,..fluffy,..blah, blah ,..."
"blah, blah, blah, blah blah, blah blah, blah ,..fluffy,..blah, blah blah, blah ,..fluffy,..blah, blah ,..."