"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1 - my girlfriend and i have been together about 2 months. this last week i stayed at the night every night. usually come over later cuz im busy with work and doing other things, so we hang out for a little bit then its straight to the bedroom for some fun then sleep. im curious if i should maybe make myself a little less available? she still seems very interested, but i want her to miss me from time to time so she wont get bored or anything.

2 - last night as we were having sex she asked me to stop thrusting for a minute or two. then said "is it weird that i like when youre inside of me? like just sitting there. it makes me feel closer to you." anyone else have that happen? and is it a red flag by any chance?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1 - I would stop worrying about what she thinks and worry about yourself becoming used to the idea of sleeping over every night. Every man needs his space.. there's no way I could sleep with another chick EVERY night.

2 - You're thinking way too much. No red flag.
 
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BAM001 said:
"is it weird that i like when youre inside of me? like just sitting there. it makes me feel closer to you." anyone else have that happen? and is it a red flag by any chance?

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No. That's a green flag : she's so into you that she wants all of it inside her, for a few moments.

You got her in your grasp basically.
 
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haha, thanks wc2, ill stop overthinking XD. its not every night usually. just this week that shes wanted me over pretty much every night.

don - didnt think of it that way. i had heard stories of girls that ONLY feel close to guys during the sex part. i was just over thinking.

over thinking tends to be my only big problem, trying to fix it. got alot better so far, but still need some work :)
 
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