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BAM001

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1 - my girlfriend and i have been together about 2 months. this last week i stayed at the night every night. usually come over later cuz im busy with work and doing other things, so we hang out for a little bit then its straight to the bedroom for some fun then sleep. im curious if i should maybe make myself a little less available? she still seems very interested, but i want her to miss me from time to time so she wont get bored or anything.

2 - last night as we were having sex she asked me to stop thrusting for a minute or two. then said "is it weird that i like when youre inside of me? like just sitting there. it makes me feel closer to you." anyone else have that happen? and is it a red flag by any chance?

thanks
 

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1 - I would stop worrying about what she thinks and worry about yourself becoming used to the idea of sleeping over every night. Every man needs his space.. there's no way I could sleep with another chick EVERY night.

2 - You're thinking way too much. No red flag.
 

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BAM001 said:
"is it weird that i like when youre inside of me? like just sitting there. it makes me feel closer to you." anyone else have that happen? and is it a red flag by any chance?

thanks

No. That's a green flag : she's so into you that she wants all of it inside her, for a few moments.

You got her in your grasp basically.
 

BAM001

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haha, thanks wc2, ill stop overthinking XD. its not every night usually. just this week that shes wanted me over pretty much every night.

don - didnt think of it that way. i had heard stories of girls that ONLY feel close to guys during the sex part. i was just over thinking.

over thinking tends to be my only big problem, trying to fix it. got alot better so far, but still need some work :)
 
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