"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Two questions

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Two questions here

1)If a girl tells you she is moody is this a sign of weakness on her side.

2) If a girl says she is busy weekends to go out with you and prefers weekdays whats a good come back to spin her out. (this to me is b*llsHyt )

3) If she comes back snooping 3 months down the track after ignoring her what do you tell her to burn her inside out :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Everyone is moody, although women go to the extreme....this could be a sign of a bad attitude, or if i don't get it my way in life I pout and get upset!

Date the girl on a weekday for crying out loud - it has the same relevance as any other day - what is important is not the day rather it iis her presence with you - take advantage of it and give her reason to see you again!
 
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your third question is a moot point, if you hook up now and quit hesitating. You may never get to point 3. you are assuming she'll be interested.
 

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Dude, you need to brush up on your arithmetic.

1) Every girl gets moody, I wouldn't think much of it. Let time tell.

2) As PRL said, go out with her on weekdays. She might be busy during weekends with hobbies etc. Girls actually do other things than turn dates down all the time.

3) Who cares, you should be too busy deciding which lucky lady is going to be your date for that night.
 

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Ok i see what you are saying however this is the second time she has hit me with this answer.

If she surely was interested she could re-arrange her time.

I work, study and play sport 5 days of the week.

Anyway it probably doesen't matter. I have coffee with another chick lined up for the weekend who is not that anal.

If she gets hurt seeing me with another its not my fault.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Lafarge
Ok i see what you are saying however this is the second time she has hit me with this answer.

If she surely was interested she could re-arrange her time.

I work, study and play sport 5 days of the week.

Anyway it probably doesen't matter. I have coffee with another chick lined up for the weekend who is not that anal.

If she gets hurt seeing me with another its not my fault.
Dude - if she is making excuses then next her, otherwise work on a freakin compromise and tell her what dates do we both have open.

A sour pus attitude is self-defeating
 
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