"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Two Questions

sifer

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For those who care..

Just a thought.

1 - What would you do if you weren't afraid?

I realized a lot of times what we do or in most case (esp the case of seduction or simply just getting the chick we want) what we DON'T do, it's because we were afraid.

2 - What would you do, or where would you be if the DJ Bible didn't exist?

This is simply one of those "What if" questions.
Let's see what people here think of.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Brian20o2

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1 - What would you do if you weren't afraid?

Alot more crazy **** than I do now... Could you be more specific?

2 - What would you do, or where would you be if the DJ Bible didn't exist?

Still a angry fat 15 year old virgin (Time would stop and I would still be 15 :rock: )
 

diplomatic_lies

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If I had no fear, I'd:
-Jump inside a volcano to see how hot lava is
-Swim beneath the Arctic ice caps
-Kill everyone on this planet so I can check out what an empty earth would be like
 

Skilla_Staz

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If I had no fear? I'd be dead. Simple as that. I have fear and I've almost died. I'm an adrenaline junkie. I don't want to know how mangled I'd be without fear.

Without the DJ bible? I'd be fine. I never really read it. Just the posts, suggestions, the articles on the main site.
 
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