"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Two Questions

sifer

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For those who care..

Just a thought.

1 - What would you do if you weren't afraid?

I realized a lot of times what we do or in most case (esp the case of seduction or simply just getting the chick we want) what we DON'T do, it's because we were afraid.

2 - What would you do, or where would you be if the DJ Bible didn't exist?

This is simply one of those "What if" questions.
Let's see what people here think of.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brian20o2

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1 - What would you do if you weren't afraid?

Alot more crazy **** than I do now... Could you be more specific?

2 - What would you do, or where would you be if the DJ Bible didn't exist?

Still a angry fat 15 year old virgin (Time would stop and I would still be 15 :rock: )
 

diplomatic_lies

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If I had no fear, I'd:
-Jump inside a volcano to see how hot lava is
-Swim beneath the Arctic ice caps
-Kill everyone on this planet so I can check out what an empty earth would be like
 

Skilla_Staz

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If I had no fear? I'd be dead. Simple as that. I have fear and I've almost died. I'm an adrenaline junkie. I don't want to know how mangled I'd be without fear.

Without the DJ bible? I'd be fine. I never really read it. Just the posts, suggestions, the articles on the main site.
 
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