"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Two possibilities only one answer can do

New2Town

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Well, in two hours, I need to decide what to do tonight and I turn to you SS for help...

Option #1 - Possibility of seeing a girl I met off Match.com tonight, she's a HB6 in my opinion. We talked for a bit and I turned the conversation sexual. She seemed responsive to my questions and asked her own. The only way I am going to go see her (it's a 30 minute drive) is if I can get some tonight. I think I have done a good job of turning it sexual and making her want more because I told her she was in "negative points" after a few comments she made. She qualified herself to say she would find a way to get herself into the positive again. I am planning on shooting her a text to tell her "I already was down in the area today, so I am planning on not driving back to (my town) tonight for the second time."

Option #2 - Go out with my roommate and meet women in my town. It's not guaranteed, so it would be a little bit harder. My roommate hardly likes to game, but said he would try tonight if I wanted to go out. There is a semi-good nightlife in my area so I could definitely get out there and meet some folks.

So there are my options. One features a 70/30 chance of getting with a girl the other is a complete toss-up. I know that if I go down to see her, I can get what I want. I always do.

But what would you do if you were me? Remember, I need a collective answer in two hours.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is something you need to decide for yourself dude...
 

New2Town

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Andromax said:
This is something you need to decide for yourself dude...
True, but sometimes, I like to ask some opinions of friends, guys and people I don't know.
 
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