"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Two possibilities only one answer can do

New2Town

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Well, in two hours, I need to decide what to do tonight and I turn to you SS for help...

Option #1 - Possibility of seeing a girl I met off Match.com tonight, she's a HB6 in my opinion. We talked for a bit and I turned the conversation sexual. She seemed responsive to my questions and asked her own. The only way I am going to go see her (it's a 30 minute drive) is if I can get some tonight. I think I have done a good job of turning it sexual and making her want more because I told her she was in "negative points" after a few comments she made. She qualified herself to say she would find a way to get herself into the positive again. I am planning on shooting her a text to tell her "I already was down in the area today, so I am planning on not driving back to (my town) tonight for the second time."

Option #2 - Go out with my roommate and meet women in my town. It's not guaranteed, so it would be a little bit harder. My roommate hardly likes to game, but said he would try tonight if I wanted to go out. There is a semi-good nightlife in my area so I could definitely get out there and meet some folks.

So there are my options. One features a 70/30 chance of getting with a girl the other is a complete toss-up. I know that if I go down to see her, I can get what I want. I always do.

But what would you do if you were me? Remember, I need a collective answer in two hours.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Andromax

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This is something you need to decide for yourself dude...
 

New2Town

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Andromax said:
This is something you need to decide for yourself dude...
True, but sometimes, I like to ask some opinions of friends, guys and people I don't know.
 
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