"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Two Girls Too Many

aussiegoat55

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I'm at university right now and I've been meeting a lot of new people, girls and guys, and I've flirted with one girl who I have so much in common with, plus we've had some weird coincidences of running into each other. She's invited me to hang out, I know she likes me. I asked for her number when I first met her, we've had dinner, etc.

But then, out of fvcking nowhere comes this other chick I met and we hooked up the very day I met her, needless to say I never expected that and it's going a bit too fast than I'm used to. And this girl is absoultey crazy for me, a total minx.

The three of us all live in the same dorm hall. I want to date both because they're both cool, good girls, not like I'm dating a slvt and this would be a no-brainer, but it seems like cheating or that one girl might will get hurt, I'm concerned other people will find out, news spreads fast by word of mouth here.

Anyway, I wanted some advice on how to handle the situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alphamale1821

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your a player and none of these girls are your girlfriend. You haven't made an exclusive commitment to one of them so you are fine to date, and **** who you want.
 

Biggie

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I agree, do em both. Even if they found out they may or may not stop talking to you, but that doesn't mean their attraction will be gone. Alpha is right, you haven't made any actual commitment to either of them so you have an excuse if they try to get all pissy with you.
 
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